Appendix E

The American Cousins
 

 

Only a few fragments (and those mostly unverifiable) remain of the personal histories of bygone European Ehrlichs, Rotmanns, Kohns and Schwartzes.  More can be said about the uncle, aunt, and cousins who welcomed Joseph, Mathilda, and Martha to Chicago—though even those prove elusive at times.  (I have been unable to locate either the elder Kohns or the Ruhigs in the 1920 and 1930 censuses, which were handwritten and variably transcribable[77].)  This appendix presents my assembled research notes.

The Elder Kohns

       Samu/Samuel (Sam) Kohn was born in 1867 or 1868, most likely in Temesvár[78] from which his brothers Móric and Geza moved to Kolozsvár.  According to the 1910 census he emigrated to Chicago in 1907, though he doesn’t appear on the same ship’s manifest with his wife and children.  In 1910 his family lived at 4203 [South?] Langley Avenue; in 1923 at 1024 Irving Park Boulevard[79]; and in 1930 at 642 [West?] Cornelia Avenue (per a blurry telephone directory).  Sam died on July 24, 1934, aged 66 or 67, and was buried in Forest Park’s “Northwest Charity Cemetery.”  (Part of the Jewish Waldheim Cemeteries?)

       Jeni (Jenni, Jennie, Jenny, Jenka) Liebmann[80] Kohn was born on June 12, 1871[81], the daughter of Adolf Liebmann of Temesvár; she married Sam Kohn on October 28, 1893.  Jeni and her three children left Europe aboard the SS President Grant on October 26, 1907 and arrived in New York on November 7th.  The 1910 census indicated that she only spoke Hungarian[82], whereas the rest of her household could speak English.  In July 1923 Jeni applied for a passport to visit relatives in Romania and Hungary, and was evidently sailing there at the same time the Ehrlichs were traveling to America.  After Sam’s death Jeni lived as a boarder at “3153 Amsley” [West Ainslie?] in 1937; the address in the 1940 census appears to be 3045 Ainslee.  She died in 1944, aged about 73, and was buried in Waldheim Cemetery.  (Martha Ehrlich’s brother George was taught to call Sam and Jeni “Grandpa and Grandma Kohn.”)

The Ruhigs

       Rózsa/Rose Kohn Ruhig, eldest child of Sam and Jeni, was born on September 1, 1895, one day before her cousin Mathilda.  She married Béla Ruhig in Chicago on January 28, 1914.  When the Ehrlichs arrived in 1923, the Ruhigs lived at 945(?) Irving Park Boulevard, down the street from Rose’s parents.  By 1937 the Ruhigs moved to 640˝ Cornelia Avenue, close to the Kohns’s 1930 address.  Rose did not become a naturalized citizen until 1946.  She died on October 3, 1990, aged 95, and was buried (as “Beloved Matriarch”) in the Columbarium of Graciousness at Hillside Memorial Park in Culver City, California.

       Béla Ruhig was born in Szeged, Hungary[83] on November 13, 1887, the son of Kalman Ruhig (1860-1955[84]) and Rózsa Dukesz; he was living in Vienna when he left for Chicago in 1907.  Béla’s name often got recorded as “Ben” or “Benjamin”—confusingly, since he had a younger brother Beno (1897-1964) who was also in the fur business in Chicago; as was their brother Michael (1893-1965), all three working separately after failing to work together.  Béla became a naturalized citizen in 1926.  He belonged to many lodges and favored liberal if not radical causes—owning the complete works of Lenin, declaring he was “opposed to war in general” and should be exempt from the draft, taking out ads in the labor-sponsored “Red weekly” Chicago Star, etc.  His fur shops were located at 3136 Broadway (1917), 3939 Sheridan (1930), and 734 North Sheridan (1947).  Béla died on February 26, 1966 in California, aged 78, and was buried in Hillside Memorial Park.

       Violet Evelyn (Eve[85]) Ruhig Sessler, first child of Rose and Bela, was born in Chicago on April 6, 1915; she graduated from Lake View High School in 1934 and was working as a beauty operator in 1940.  On January 17, 1942 she married Albert Bela Sessler (1906-1978), a painter and decorator of homes.  They had three children: Robert/Bob[86] (born 1946), Bertha/Birdie (born 1949) and Sandra/Sandy (born 1955).  Eve signed “An Open Letter to President Johnson and the Democratic Party,” protesting the Vietnam War, that appeared in the June 23, 1967 Los Angeles Times[87].  Four years later she and Albert encountered George Ehrlich and family in London[88].  Eve died in 2020, aged 105, and was buried (as “Beloved wife, mother, grandmother, great-grandmother, and humanitarian”) with her husband and parents in Hillside Memorial Park.

       Theodore Frank (Ted/Teddy) Ruhig, second child of Rose and Bela, was born in Chicago on March 12, 1917; he too graduated from Lake View High School in 1934[89], then pursued social work.  On June 18, 1943 he married Nancy (Nan) Ingram (1918-2006), a teacher and composer, in an army base chapel in Nan’s native Mississippi.  They had three children: Rosemary (born c.1947), Wendy (born c.1953) and Franklin (1958-2001), moving from Illinois to Hawaii, Sacramento, and finally Ohio.  Ted was a newspaper columnist, political activist, and leader of the Gray Panthers; besides serving in the California Senior Legislature and testifying before Congress on behalf of reauthorizing the Older Americans Act, he sued the California Department of Aging for age discrimination—and won.  Ted died on May 18, 2012, aged 95.

The Temmers

       Margit/Margaret Kohn Temmer, second child of Sam and Jeni, was born on March 22, 1897 and accompanied her mother and siblings from Temesvár to Chicago in 1907.  She married Markus Temmer on February 3, 1917[90]; they settled in Racine, Wisconsin, before moving to Kenosha in 1948.  In widowhood she and her cousin Mathilda Ehrlich would share apartments in Los Angeles for nearly two decades.  Margaret died on July 1, 1987, aged 90, and was buried in Hillside Memorial Park.

       Markus[91] Temmer was born February 2, 1885 in Temesvár, the son of Samuel Temmer (1853-1937) and Mary Schlesinger (1857-1937)[92]; he arrived in America in 1904 and became a naturalized citizen in 1913.  Markus operated the Racine Towel Supply Co. and, after relocating to Kenosha, founded Temmer Industrial Cleaners.  After a long illness he died on January 21, 1956, aged 70.

       Ernest (Ernie) Temmer, first child of Margaret and Markus, was born on December 28, 1917 in Racine and graduated from Washington Park High School in 1935.  Enlisting for military service in 1942, he spent World War II “island-hopping” the South Pacific as part of the 230th Signal Operations Company[93].  Ernie married Ruth Rachel Gale (1916-2020) on February 5, 1946; they had two daughters, Susan (born 1947) and Marlayne (born 1959).  After Markus’s death, Ernie sold the Kenosha laundry business and moved to southern California, beginning the family circle’s exodus from the Midwest.  In retirement he was a longtime volunteer at the Little Company of Mary Hospital in Torrance, where he was known as “E.T.”  Ernie died on October 16, 1994, aged 76, and was buried in Hillside Memorial Park.

       Alexander (Alex) Temmer, second child of Margaret and Markus, was born May 28, 1919[94] in Racine.  He graduated from Washington Park High School and earned a degree in journalism from the University of Wisconsin; enlisting in the Army in 1941, he served as an officer in the Intelligence Corps.  On December 25, 1941 Alex married Shirley Salochek[95] (1921-2003) of Detroit; they had a daughter Marsha[96] (born 1946).  Alex died in Allen Park, Michigan on June 4, 1951, aged only 32, and was buried in Ferndale’s Machpelah Cemetery.

Leo and Evelyn

       László/Leo John Kohn, third child of Sam and Jeni, was born on April 10, 1902 in Hungary[97] and emigrated to America with his mother and sisters in 1907.  He moved to Racine by 1930, when he lived with the Temmers and worked as a machinist at the Nash Motors auto factory[98].  When Leo registered for the draft in 1942 his contact was “Miss E. Hoffman”: Evelyn Antoinette Elvina Hoffman (1905-1986), whom Leo married after his war service with the Quartermaster Corps—also, perhaps not coincidentally, after his mother Jeni’s death.  By 1950 he worked for Webster Electric as a parts inspector.  Leo evidently took his bride’s Catholic faith[99]: he was a member of St. Mary’s Church in Racine and died December 15, 1953, aged 51, at St. Mary’s Hospital.  (“Rosary will be recited.”)  He was buried in Marinette, Wisconsin’s Forest Home Cemetery and later joined there by Evelyn.

The Hoyers

       Katalin/Katherine (Kati, Katie, Katica) Ruhig Hoyer, younger sister of Béla Ruhig, was born on February 6, 1892[100] and emigrated to Chicago in 1910.  She married István/Stefan (Steve) Hoyer (1888-1982) on March 30, 1912; he worked as a machinist in 1920, an auto mechanic in 1930, and a janitor in 1940.  Kati became a naturalized citizen in 1940; she died in Los Angeles on September 5, 1974, aged 82.

       William Adolph (Bill) Hoyer, first child of Kati and Steve, was born on January 21, 1913 in Chicago amd graduated from the Armour Institute of Technology in 1935.  Bill met his wife Harriet Lesniak (1911-1994) as a member of the Chicago Modern Dance Group; they married in 1940 and had a daughter Susan (born c.1944) and a son Peter[101] (born c.1945).  Bill was employed at several engineering plants before founding his own consulting firm in 1960[102].  In retirement he not only helped Evanston set up its first recycling program, but became a tai chi instructor and a master weaver of Navajo-style art.  Bill died on July 12, 2000, aged 87.

       Ernest Carl (Ernie) Hoyer, second child of Kati and Steve, was born on December 6, 1915 in Chicago, and became a successful electrical engineer.  He married Aviva Silbert (1917-2012) in East St. Louis, MO in 1941; she was a pioneering woman physician and and one of the first women to be board-certfied as an anestheisologist.  They had four children: Paul (born c.1943), Stephanie (born 1944), Jennifer and Daniel.[103]  The Hoyers “became a fixture of the Los Angeles community, supporting liberal and Jewish organizations.”  Ernie died on March 4, 2007, aged 91; he and Aviva were both buried in Hillside Memorial Park.

 Notes

[77] Even printed documents aren’t wholly reliable: newspaper coverage of a 1937 auto accident refers to “Beela” Ruhig, “Jennie Kohen,” and “Mrs. Jeane Kohn.”
[78] The Illinois Deaths Index shows his birthplace as “Klasenburg [sic], Hungary.”
[79] Later renamed Irving Park Road.
[80] Her two daughters’s death records show Jeni’s maiden name as “Liebman” or “Lieberman.”
[81] The 1907 ship’s manifest implied an 1869 birthyear; the 1871 date appears on her 1923 passport application.
[82] She was in fact the lone German-speaker in a Hungarian family circle.
[83] Which, unlike Kolozsvár and Temesvár, remained a Hungarian city; yet Béla’s birthplace (spelled “Zsegred,” “Zsigard,” “Isigard,” etc.) would several times be listed as Czechoslovakian.
[84] Kalman came to join his children in Chicago in 1925.  Besides Béla, Beno, Michael, and Kati Ruhig Hoyer, there were three other daughters: Olga Ruhig Adler (1889-1969), Julia Ruhig Hirsch Goldman (1894-1982), and Margaret Ruhig Rothstein (1899-1978).  Beno and Michael would both live in Beverly Hills, while Olga and husband John Adler “made a mint of money” from investments.
[85] Pronounced as two-syllable “Evie.”
[86] Whom George Ehrlich encountered in Paris in 1966: as related in George's Navigations: Solo Jaunt in Europe.
[87] Eve’s name was four down from Rod Serling’s.  The same letter was signed by her mother Rose.
[88] As related in The George and Mila Show: 1971 - England.
[89] In high school Teddy belonged to numerous clubs, like his father, and also served as “Basket Ball Manager.”
[90] Markus’s obituary showed a 1916 date, but 1917 was recorded in the Illinois Marriages Index.
[91] Often spelled “Marcus.”
[92] Markus’s siblings were Ethel Temmer Fischer (1882-1962), Bertha Temmer Streissinger (1884-1965), and Charles Arnold Temmer (1887-1949); his obituary also referred to a brother Harold who predeceased him.
[93] George Ehrlich attempted in vain to locate his cousin Ernie during a 1945 mercy mission to the Philippines: as related in George's Navigations: The War Memoir.
[94] Alex’s obituary gave a 1918 birthyear.
[95] “Salocher” on her marriage license; “Solacheck” in Alex’s obituary.  George Ehrlich visited Alex and Shirley in early 1947 and was fixed up on a blind date with Shirley’s younger sister Natalie Salochek (1925-2020).
[96] Marsha Jo Temmer, generally known by her surname, was part of the 1960s girl group Honey Ltd.; they appeared on numerous television programs, including The Ed Sullivan Show, and performed with Bob Hope on a USO tour of Vietnam.  When Honey Ltd. first visited Los Angeles in 1967, “they slept on Temmer’s grandmother’s floor” (per www.furious.com/perfect/honeyltd.html)—which implies at Margaret and Mathilda Ehrlich’s apartment, since Shirley Salochek Temmer’s mother Fannie Becker Salochek Zumberg lived in Detroit in 1964 and died in Florida in 1978, with no mention of a California residency.
[97] His obtuary gave a Chicago birthplace.
[98] Nash was based in Kenosha until its 1937 merger with the Kelvinator Appliance Co.
[99] Which probably produced the middle name “John” on Leo’s grave marker.
[100] Some sources give Kati a birthplace of “Joka, Czechoslovakia” or “Gulymesser, Slovakia.”
[101] Recorded in the 1950 census, but unmentioned in either Bill or Harriet’s obituaries.
[102] In the 1970s, Bill Hoyer “invented and then patented for Chrysler Corp. a mass-production method for their cars’s catalytic converters, which filtered the unsafe byproducts of gasoline before releasing exhaust into the atmosphere”: per his obituary.
[103] The latter two per Aviva’s obituary; Jennifer and Daniel do not appear in the 1950 census.

 



















 


Illustrations

●  Ted Ruhig, Alex Temmer, Evelyn Ruhig, Ernie Temmer: before 1942

●  Steve and Kati Hoyer with son Bill and granddaughter Susan: 1944

●  Martha with three Ruhigs, two Sesslers, and two Hoyers: June 1944

●  Ernie Hoyer, Ted Ruhig, Kalman Ruhig, Albert Sessler: June 1944
 



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